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  • ืชืžื•ื ืช ื”ืกื•ืคืจ/ืชM.Ed Idan Cohen

ื”ืฉืคืขื•ืช ื”ืกืคื•ืจื˜ ืขืœ ื”ื’ื•ืฃ ื•ื”ื ืคืฉโ€‹

ื›ื™ืฆื“ ืกืคื•ืจื˜ ืžืฉืคื™ืข ืขืœ ื‘ืจื™ืื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืฃ?

ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช, ื’ื ืื ื”ื™ื ืžืชื•ื ื” ื•ื‘ืžืฉืš 30 ื“ืงื•ืช ื‘ื™ื•ื, ื”ื™ื ื” ื‘ืขืœืช ื”ืฉืคืขื” ื—ื™ื•ื‘ื™ืช ืขืœ ื‘ืจื™ืื•ืชื• ืฉืœ ื”ืื“ื, ื•ืžืฉืคืจืช ื›ืžืขื˜ ืืช ื›ืœ ื”ืžืขืจื›ื•ืช ื‘ื’ื•ืคื•. ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ื—ืฉื•ื‘ื” ื‘ื›ืœ ืฉืœื‘ื™ ื”ื—ื™ื™ื ืžื™ืœื“ื•ืช ืœื‘ื’ืจื•ืช ื•ืขื“ ื’ื™ืœ ื”ื–ื”ื‘. ื”ื™ื ืžืคื—ื™ืชื” ืืช ื”ืกื™ื›ื•ืŸ ืœื”ืชืคืชื—ื•ืช ืžื—ืœื•ืช ืœื‘, ืฉื‘ืฅ ื•ืกื•ื›ืจืช, ืขื•ื–ืจืช ื‘ื”ื•ืจื“ืช ืœื—ืฅ ื”ื“ื ื•ื”ื•ืจื“ืช ืจื™ื›ื•ื– ื”ืฉื•ืžื ื™ื ื‘ื“ื, ืžืคื—ื™ืชื” ืืช ื”ืกื™ื›ื•ืŸ ืœืœืงื•ืช ื‘ืกื•ื’ื™ ืกืจื˜ืŸ ืฉื•ื ื™ื, ืžื—ื–ืงืช ืืช ืžืกืช ื”ืขืฆื ื•ืžืฆืžืฆืžืช ืืช ื”ืกื™ื›ื•ืŸ ืœื ืคื™ืœื•ืช ื•ืฉื‘ืจื™ื, ืžื—ื–ืงืช ืืช ืžืกืช ื”ืฉืจื™ืจ, ืžืคืชื—ืช ืืช ืงื™ื‘ื•ืœืช ื”ืจื™ืื•ืช, ืžืืคืฉืจืช ืชืคืงื•ื“ ื™ืขื™ืœ ืฉืœ ื”ืœื‘ ื•ื›ืœื™ ื”ื“ื, ืชื•ืจืžืช ืœื™ืจื™ื“ื” ื‘ืžืฉืงืœ ื•ืฉืžื™ืจื” ืขืœ ืžืฉืงืœ ืชืงื™ืŸ, ืžืคื—ื™ืชื” ืชืกืžื™ื ื™ื ืฉืœ ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ ื•ื—ืจื“ื” ื•ืขื•ื–ืจืช ืœืฉื™ืคื•ืจ ืžืฆื‘ ื”ืจื•ื— (ื”ื™ื™ืžืŸ, 2002).

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ืื™ืš ืกืคื•ืจื˜ ืžืฉืคื™ืข ืขืœ ื”ื™ื›ื•ืœืช ื”ืงื•ื’ื ื™ื˜ื™ื‘ื™ืช

ืžื—ืงืจื™ื ืฉื ืขืจื›ื• ื‘ืฉื ื™ื ื”ืื—ืจื•ื ื•ืช ื’ื™ืœื• ื›ื™ ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืžื—ื–ืงืช ืืช

ื™ื›ื•ืœื•ืช ื”ืžื•ื— ื”ืงืฉื•ืจื•ืช ื‘ืชืคืงื•ื“ ื”ื–ื›ืจื•ืŸ, ืงืฉื‘ ื•ืจื™ื›ื•ื–, ืฉื™ืคื•ื˜ ื•ื’ืžื™ืฉื•ืช ืงื•ื’ื ื™ื˜ื™ื‘ื™ืช ื•ื‘ืขื™ืงืจ ืืช ื”ื™ื›ื•ืœืช

ืœื‘ืฆืข ืžืฉื™ืžื•ืช ื”ื“ื•ืจืฉื•ืช ืชืฉื•ืžืช ืœื‘, ืืจื’ื•ืŸ ื•ืชื›ื ื•ืŸ (ืฉื—ืฃ, 2009).

ืงืฉืจ ื–ื” ื‘ื™ืŸ ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืœื‘ื™ืŸ ื”ืชืคืงื•ื“ ื”ืงื•ื’ื ื™ื˜ื™ื‘ื™ ืžื•ืกื‘ืจ ื‘ืืžืฆืขื•ืช ืžื ื’ื ื•ื ื™ื ืฉื•ื ื™ื. ืฉื™ืคื•ืจ ื‘ื”ื•ืœื›ืช ื—ืžืฆืŸ ืœืžื•ื—, ื‘ืจื™ืืช ืชืื™ื ื—ื“ืฉื™ื ื‘ื”ื™ืคื•ืงืžืคื•ืก, ) ืื–ื•ืจ ื‘ืžื•ื— ืœื• ืชืคืงื™ื“ ื—ืฉื•ื‘ ื‘ืจื›ื™ืฉื” ืฉืœ ื–ื™ื›ืจื•ื ื•ืช ื—ื“ืฉื™ื ืื•ื“ื•ืช ืขื•ื‘ื“ื•ืช ื•ืื™ืจื•ืขื™ื, ืฉื™ื ื•ื™ื™ื ืžื‘ื ื™ื™ื ื‘ืžื•ื— ื•ืฉื™ืคื•ืจ ื™ื›ื•ืœืช ื”ื’ืžื™ืฉื•ืช ื”ืžื•ื—ื™ืช, ื”ืžืชืจื—ืฉื™ื ืขืงื‘ ื”ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช, ืžื”ื•ื•ื™ื ื—ืœืง ืžื”ืžื ื’ื ื•ื ื™ื ื”ื "ืœ (ืฉื—ืฃ, 2009).

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ืื™ืš ืกืคื•ืจื˜ ืžืฉืคื™ืข ืขืœ ืชื—ื•ืฉืช ืžืกื•ื’ืœื•ืช ืขืฆืžื™ืช ื•ื“ื™ืžื•ื™ ืขืฆืžื™

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ยดื›ื™ื•ื ื˜ื•ืขื ื™ื ื—ื•ืงืจื™ื ื›ื™ ื”ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืžืฉืคื™ืขื” ื‘ื—ื™ื•ื‘ ื’ื ืขืœ ืชื—ื•ืฉื•ืช ืฉืœ ืžืกื•ื’ืœื•ืช ืขืฆืžื™ืช ื•ื“ื™ืžื•ื™ ืขืฆืžื™ (ื™ืขืจื•ืŸ, 2010) ; (ืื”ืจื•ื ื™, 2006). ืœื˜ืขื ืชื, ืžืื—ืจ ื•ืงื™ื™ื ืงืฉืจ ื‘ื™ืŸ ื”ืฆืœื—ื” ื‘ื‘ื™ืฆื•ืข ืžืฉื™ืžื•ืช ื•ื‘ื™ืŸ ืจืžืช ื”ืืžื•ื ื” ืฉืœ ื”ืื“ื ื‘ื™ื›ื•ืœืชื•, ื•ื›ื›ืœ ืฉื”ื•ื ืžืฆืœื™ื— ื™ื•ืชืจ ื”ื•ื ืžืืžื™ืŸ ื‘ืขืฆืžื• ื™ื•ืชืจ ื•ืžื ืกื” ื™ื•ืชืจ, ื”ืจื™ ืฉื‘ื™ืฆื•ืข ืชืจื’ื™ืœื™ื ื”ืžื’ื‘ื™ืจ ืืช ืชืคืงื•ื“ื• ืฉืœ ื”ืคืจื˜ ื‘ื‘ื™ืฆื•ืข ืคืขื•ืœื•ืช ืžืกื™ื™ืข ื‘ื›ืš ื’ื ืœื”ื’ื‘ืจืช ืชื—ื•ืฉื•ืช ื”ืฉืœื™ื˜ื” ื•ื”ืžืกื•ื’ืœื•ืช ื”ืขืฆืžื™ืช. ื‘ื ื•ืกืฃ ืœื›ืš, ื”ืขื•ืกืง ื‘ืกืคื•ืจื˜ ื—ื•ื•ื” ื”ืฆืœื—ื” ืžืขืฆื ื”ื”ืฉืชืชืคื•ืช ื‘ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืขืฆืžื”, ืžืขืฆื ื™ื›ื•ืœื•ืชื™ื• ื”ืื™ืฉื™ื•ืช-ื’ื•ืคื ื™ื•ืช ื”ื‘ืื•ืช ืœื™ื“ื™ ื‘ื™ื˜ื•ื™ ื‘ืืžืฆืขื•ืช ื”ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช, ื•ืืœื” ืžื‘ื™ืื•ืช ืœืชื—ื•ืฉืช ืกื™ืคื•ืง ื•ืœื”ื ืื” ืฉื›ื ืจืื” ืžืคื—ื™ืชื•ืช ืืช ืจืžืช ื”ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ ื•ืืฃ ืžืขืœื•ืช ืืช ื”ื“ื™ืžื•ื™ ื”ืขืฆืžื™ ื•ื”ื”ืขืจื›ื” ื”ืขืฆืžื™ืช. ื›ืš, ื”ื“ืจืš ื‘ื” ืื“ื ืชื•ืคืก ื•ืžืขืจื™ืš ืืช ืขืฆืžื• ืžืฉืชื ื” ื•ื”ื•ืคื›ืช ื—ื™ื•ื‘ื™ืช ื™ื•ืชืจ, ื•ื”ืื“ื ืžืจื’ื™ืฉ ื‘ื˜ื•ื— ื™ื•ืชืจ ื‘ื™ื›ื•ืœื•ืชื™ื•, ืœื ื ืจืชืข ืžื‘ืขื™ื•ืช ื”ื—ื™ื™ื ื•ืจื•ืื” ื‘ืงืฉื™ื™ื ืืชื’ืจ ื•ืœื ืžื›ืฉื•ืœ (ื™ืขืจื•ืŸ, 2010) ; (ืื”ืจื•ื ื™, 2006).

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ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืžืกื™ื™ืขืช ืœื”ืงืœืช ื”ืชืžื•ื“ื“ื•ืช ืขื ืžืฆื‘ื™ ืœื—ืฅ ื•ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ

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ื‘ืชืงื•ืคืช ื”ื—ื™ื™ื ื”ืžื•ื“ืจื ื™ื™ื ื•ื‘ื“ื•ืจ ื”ืคืจื•ื–ืง, ืžื•ืžื—ื™ื ื‘ืชื—ื•ื ืžืฆื™ื™ื ื™ื ื›ื™ ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ื”ื™ื ื”ื“ืจืš ื”ื™ืขื™ืœื” ื•ื”ื˜ื‘ืขื™ืช ื‘ื™ื•ืชืจ ืœื”ื’ื‘ื™ืจ ืื ืจื’ื™ื” ื•ืœื”ืคื—ื™ืช ืžืชื— ื•ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ. ื”ืชื—ื•ืฉื•ืช ื”ืžืชืขื•ืจืจื•ืช ื‘ื–ืžืŸ ืื™ืžื•ืŸ ื’ื•ืคื ื™ ื•ืœืื—ืจื™ื• ืขื•ื–ืจื•ืช ืœื”ืชืžื•ื“ื“ ืขื ืžืฆื‘ื™ ืœื—ืฅ, ื—ืจื“ื” ืžืชื— ื•ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ. ื”ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืืฃ ื”ื•ื›ื—ื” ื›ื˜ื•ื‘ื” ื›ืžื• ื˜ื™ืคื•ืœ ืชืจื•ืคืชื™ ืœืชื•ืคืขื•ืช ื”ืœืœื• ื•ืืฃ ื ื—ืฉื‘ืช ื‘ืขื™ื ื™ ืจื‘ื™ื ื›ื”ืชืขืจื‘ื•ืช ื”ื”ืชื ื”ื’ื•ืชื™ืช ื”ื™ืขื™ืœื” ื‘ื™ื•ืชืจ ื‘ื˜ื™ืคื•ืœ ื‘ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ (ื™ืขืจื•ืŸ, 2010). ื‘ืžื—ืงืจื™ื ืฉื ืขืจื›ื• ื‘ืขืฉื•ืจื™ื ื”ืื—ืจื•ื ื™ื ื ืจืื” ื›ื™ ืื ืฉื™ื ื”ืคืขื™ืœื™ื ื™ื•ืชืจ ื‘ืื•ืคืŸ ืคื™ื–ื™ ื”ื™ื• ื‘ืขืœื™ ืกื™ื›ื•ื™ ืงื˜ืŸ ื™ื•ืชืจ ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ื‘ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ, ื‘ื”ืฉื•ื•ืื” ืœืืœื” ืฉืื™ื ื ืคืขื™ืœื™ื (ืื”ืจื•ื ื™, 2006).

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ื”ืฉืคืขืช ื”ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืขืœ ื”ื ืคืฉ

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ยดื”ื”ืชืžื›ืจื•ืช ื ื™ื–ื•ื ื” ืžื—ื•ืกืจ ืื™ื–ื•ืŸ ืจื’ืฉื™ ืขืžื•ืง. ืžื›ื•ืจื™ื, ื›ืืฉืจ ื”ื ืžื“ื•ื›ืื™ื ืื• ืœื—ื•ืฆื™ื, ื™ื‘ืจื—ื• ืœืกื ื”ืžื•ืขื“ืฃ ืขืœื™ื”ื โ€“ ื‘ืžืงืจื” ื”ื–ื”, ืชืื•ื•ื”. ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ื™ื›ื•ืœื” ืœื”ื•ืขื™ืœ ืžืื•ื“ ืœื”ืฉืงื™ื˜ ื—ืจื“ื•ืช, ืœื—ืฅ ื•ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ, ืฉืขืœ ืคื™ ื”ืžื“ืขื ื™ื ื ื•ืฆึธืจื™ื ื”ืจื‘ื” ืคืขืžื™ื ื‘ืฉืœ ื—ื•ืกืจ ืื™ื–ื•ืŸ ืฉืœ ื ื•ื™ืจื•ื˜ืจื ืกืžื™ื˜ืจื™ื ื‘ืžื•ื—.

ยดื”ืชืขืžืœื•ืช ืžืฉืคื™ืขื” ืœื ืจืง ืขืœ ืื ื“ื•ืจืคื™ื ื™ื (ื”ื”ื•ืจืžื•ื ื™ื ืฉื’ื•ืจืžื™ื ืœื ื• ืœื”ืจื’ื™ืฉ ื˜ื•ื‘), ืืœื ื’ื ืžื’ื‘ื™ืจื” ืืช ืจืžื•ืช ื”ืกืจื•ื˜ื•ื ื™ืŸ ื•ื”ื“ื•ืคืžื™ืŸ, ื•ื™ื•ืฆืจืช ืžืฆื‘ ืžืื•ื–ืŸ ื™ื•ืชืจ. ื”ื“ื‘ืจ ื”ื–ื” ืžื™ื™ืฆืจ ืืช ื”ืชื•ืคืขื” ื”ื™ื“ื•ืขื” ื‘ืฉื "ื”ื™ื™ ืฉืœ ืžืชืขืžืœื™ื", ืžืคื—ื™ืช ื—ืจื“ื•ืช ื•ืžื™ื™ืฆืจ ืชื—ื•ืฉืช ืจื•ื’ืข ื‘ืื•ืคืŸ ื›ืœืœื™.

ยดื”ื ื™ืกื™ื•ืŸ ืžืจืื” ื›ื™ ืกื“ืจ ืงื‘ื•ืข ืฉืœ ื”ืชืขืžืœื•ืช ื™ื›ื•ืœ ืœืขื–ื•ืจ ืžืื•ื“ ื‘ืžืœื—ืžื” ื‘ื”ืชืžื›ืจื•ืช, ื•ื‘ืžื™ื•ื—ื“ ื‘ื”ืชืžื•ื“ื“ื•ืช ืขื ื”ืขืฆื‘ื ื•ืช ื•ื”ืœื—ืฅ ื”ืžืœื•ื•ื™ื ืืช ืชื•ืคืขื•ืช ื”ื’ืžื™ืœื”.

ยดื”ืชืขืžืœื•ืช ืงื‘ื•ืขื” ืžืžืœืื” ืืช ื”ื–ืžืŸ ื•ืžืขืกื™ืงื” ืืช ื”ืžื—ืฉื‘ื”.

ยดื”ื•ื›ื— ื›ื™ ื”ืชืขืžืœื•ืช ืžืขืœื” ืขืจืš ืขืฆืžื™ ื•ื‘ื™ื˜ื—ื•ืŸ ืขืฆืžื™. ื‘ื ื•ืกืฃ ื ืžืฆื, ื›ื™ ื”ืžืฉืžืขืช ื”ืขืฆืžื™ืช ื”ื ื“ืจืฉืช ื•ื”ื ืœืžื“ืช ื›ืืฉืจ ืขื•ืกืงื™ื ื‘ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืงื‘ื•ืขื” "ื–ื•ืœื’ืช" ื’ื ืœืชื—ื•ืžื™ ื—ื™ื™ื ืื—ืจื™ื ื•ื™ื›ื•ืœื” ืœืขื–ื•ืจ ืœืฉื ื•ืช ื”ืจื’ืœื™ื ืจืขื™ื.

ยดื”ืชืขืžืœื•ืช ืžืฉืคื™ืขื” ื”ืฉืคืขื” ื—ื™ื•ื‘ื™ืช ืขืœ ืฉื™ื ื” ื•ืชืคืงื•ื“ ืงื•ื’ื ื™ื˜ื™ื‘ื™ ื•ืžืคื—ื™ืชื” ืชืฉื•ืงื•ืช. ื”ื™ื ืžืฉืคืจืช ืืช ืื™ื–ื•ืŸ ื”ื’ื•ืฃ-ื ืคืฉ ื•ืžืคื—ื™ืชื” ืชื•ืคืขื•ืช ืฉืœ ืžื—ืœื•ืช.

ยดื”ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช ืžืกืคืงืช ืฉื—ืจื•ืจ ื‘ืจื™ื ืœืชืกื›ื•ืœื™ื, ืื›ื–ื‘ื•ืช, ื›ืขืกื™ื ื•ืื ืจื’ื™ื” ืฉืœื™ืœื™ืช, ื•ื’ื•ืจืžืช ืœื ื• ืœื—ื•ืฉ ื™ื•ืชืจ ืฉืžื—ื™ื ื‘ืื•ืคืŸ ื›ืœืœื™. ืื ืฉื™ื ืฉืžืชืขืžืœื™ื ื”ื ืื ืฉื™ื ืื•ืคื˜ื™ืžื™ื™ื ื•ืฉืžื—ื™ื ื™ื•ืชืจ ืžืืœื• ืฉืžื ื”ืœื™ื ื—ื™ื™ื ืœืœื ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ื’ื•ืคื ื™ืช.

ืžื—ืงืจื™ื ื ื•ืกืคื™ื ื˜ื•ืขื ื™ื ื›ื™ ืฉืจื™ืคื” ืฉืœ 350 ืงืœื•ืจื™ื•ืช, ืฉืœื•ืฉ ืคืขืžื™ื ื‘ืฉื‘ื•ืข, ื‘ืคืขื™ืœื•ืช ืžื•ื’ื“ืจืช ื”ื’ื•ืจืžืช ืœื”ื–ืขื” ื™ื›ื•ืœื” ื”ืจื‘ื” ืคืขืžื™ื ืœื”ืคื—ื™ืช ืชื•ืคืขื•ืช ืฉืœ ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ ื‘ืื•ืชื” ื™ืขื™ืœื•ืช ืฉืœ ืชืจื•ืคื•ืช ื ื•ื’ื“ื•ืช ื“ื™ื›ืื•ืŸ.

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ืžืงื•ืจ :

The Willpower Instinct: How Self-Control Works, Why It Matters, and What You Can Do to Get More of It. Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D. 2011









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